When you and me time becomes you and me and Netflix.
If you’ve ever slapped the phone out of your partner’s hand while simultaneously declaring “let’s talk” only to be followed by “about what?” this is for you.
You want more quality time with your partner.
You want to reconnect.
You want real and raw conversations.
The only problem is, you truly don’t know how to have these types of conversations anymore.
In between running on the hamster wheel trying to juggle being a parent, partner, and entrepreneur, the extent of your current everyday conversations sounds like life admin.
What’s for dinner? What do you want to watch? Did you get the mail? Can you bring the laundry in? Can you put the kids to bed?
You & Me Time® Connection Cards are a series of 39 conversation starters that will make it effortless for you to get connected and stay connected, in the tiny pockets of time you have together.
The You & Me Time® Connection Cards are highly praised by New York Times Best-Selling author of The 5 Love Languages, Dr. Gary Chapman!
“The You & Me Time® Connection Cards make it easy for loved ones to create meaningful connections at their fingertips!"
— Dr. Gary Chapman
Share, process, and celebrate more of your day-to-day life and rekindle the same desire you once had when you first met. And never run out of real talk again.
Pick a card. Answer the question. Spark connection on demand.
It’s that simple.
✔ 39 connection cards created by Relationship Coach, Sayuri Chacon
✔ 5 tips guide to help you maximize your You & Me Time® Connection Cards
✔ A luxury pouch that will allow you to keep your You & Me Time® Connection Cards with you on the go to spark connection on date nights, road trips, or family mealtime
What People Are Saying
“My husband and I enjoyed using the You & Me Time® Connection Cards on a road trip. What began as an activity to pass the time evolved into a meaningful conversation that left us feeling more connected and encouraged!”
—Cierra Bragan, Founder of Miami Moms Collective
"My You & Me Time® Connection Cards helped open up a different level of relationship with my husband, family, and friends. The questions have helped me be more intentional with my time with my husband and put topics on the table that we wouldn't have normally spoken about.”
— Juliette Drexler, Network Marketer
"I used the You & Me Time® Connection Cards with someone close to me and just when I thought I knew it all... the conversation unraveled so many new things I learned about them. I've incorporated them into my networking events, Females for Profit, as an ice breaker moment and it has become one of the best parts of my events."
— Bethany Martinez, Broker Associate
Meet The Creator Of the You & Me Time® Connection Cards
Hi, I'm Sayuri!
A month after my wedding, my conversations with my husband went from "I love you" to "Did you pay the rent? "Did you check the mail? Can you do the dishes?"
It was as if we were each other's life-admins instead of romantic partners.
After the long work week, my husband and I were wiped out and we didn’t have the energy or brain power to think of interesting topics to talk about.
So, I took it upon myself to create our own deck of conversation starters (what later became the You & Me Time® Connection Cards) so we wouldn't always default to the "how was work?" conversation.
All of a sudden, our phones were down, the conversations were interesting again, and we actually started to look forward to our time together.
I hope you make the You & Me Time® Connection Cards a part of your day-to-day interactions with your loved ones. You now have a way to spark meaningful conversations on demand!
With the You & Me Time® Connection Cards, you can:
Share, process, and celebrate more of your day-to-day life
Rekindle the same desire you once had when you first met
Never run out of real talk again
Order your You & Me Time® Connection Cards and they’ll be at your doorstep in 3-5 days.
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The You & Me Time® Connection Cards were designed to work for you so we don't want you to feel limited or restricted on how to play - while the cards come with a manual on how to maximize your experience, there's no time limit or a certain number of cards you have to go through per seating. The goal is for you to experience your loved ones on more meaningful levels, so don't get hung up on rules or accumulating points - which sometimes distract you from experiencing each other more meaningfully.
Try it and make it into your own little game as you walk your dog, order take-out, or while you go out for ice cream. Feel free to create your own rules while keeping this one rule in mind: tuck away the tech (Apple Watch and AirPods too!). Studies reveal that when we leave a phone on the table, we're less likely to open up and share deeper topics because we don't want to risk being interrupted by a call or text.
The cards can become a part of your date night, while also integrating them into your day to day life - the same way that our phones are such a part of our lives - we bring them everywhere with us, even in our bedroom. We hope you will bring them everywhere too so you can easily spark connection on demand.
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The Classic Collection has 39 connection cards and is color-coded into three themes:
Slate Gray- Explore each other's season of life by sharing goals, priorities, and mindset.
Thistle Purple- Explore personal favorites, interests, and life stories.
Midnight Blue- Explore personal growth, self-awareness, and values
There are two ways we recommend you play with this collection:
Option #1
Start out by sorting the cards into 3 piles (one pile to represent each color theme)
Pick one card from each pile
You and your partner both answer the question
If you have more time to play then rinse and repeat. Have your partner take the next set of 3 cards and both answer the new set of questions.
Option #2
Shuffle the deck of cards
Place the deck in between the both of you
Pick a card from the top of the deck and read it out loud so that both of you can answer
Spark connection
Rinse and repeat!
BONUS TIP: Keep the cards you've already asked each other in a mason jar somewhere visible so you can see the deposits of connection you've made into your love tank and keep you motivated to fill it with more!!
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You win by being fully present with each other, by validating one another, having empathy, and experiencing each other deeper without the distractions of the day-to-day, without judgement, and without criticism.
So if you order in dinner, use the You & Me Time Connections Cards, forget that your phone exists, and learn something new about each other- that's a win in our book!
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The remarkable thing about the questions in this deck is that you can use them to connect with your partner, your family, kids, friends, coworkers, or any other person you'd love to connect with on a more meaningful level!
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You and your partner set the rules for this! It all depends on how much time you have to be together. The only thing we'll say is that if you have about 15 mins or less you want to perhaps only ask each other 3 questions max so that you don't feel rushed and you both have a chance to answer.
Take in the moment, stay present, and listen to each other. One of the questions may lead you to share a story or share something you've never shared before or it may prompt you to ask another follow-up question. Lean into your moment and see where it takes you next. This is what it's all about!
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At the moment, we're only shipping within the United States. But stay tuned! We'll definitely ship internationally in the future!
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I'm happy to answer any questions you may have! Email me at sayuri@youandmetime.com and I'll get back to you within 24 hours.